The Verdict is In . . . Sort Of

I know some of you are interested in the status of my ministerial credentials. They have been under review by my conference’s Leadership Commission because I officiated a wedding for two women. (You can read some of the background here and here.) I received a phone call this afternoon from the Commission chair, and he…

The True Meaning of Valentine’s Day

I began the celebration of Valentine’s Day yesterday by preaching on adultery and divorce. (Gotta love the Lectionary!) In about an hour I will continue the celebration by hanging out with a classroom full of first-graders who are ingesting way too much sugar. For now, though, I want to reflect on the true meaning of…

Maybe Paul’s Not so Bad After All . . .

I know. I know. “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness” (2 Timothy 3:16). But I have to be honest. I’ve had my doubts about Paul. “Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands” (Ephesians 5:22). “Women should remain silent in the churches” (1 Corinthians 14:34). “I do not…

Hate is Hate

I want to express my appreciation to the Southern Poverty Law Center for adding the Family Research Council and American Family Association to their list of hate groups to monitor.  Whether or not one agrees with an individual’s choice of sexual partner, there is no excuse for spreading malicious misinformation about an entire group of…

Do Tell

I was a senior in high school when the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy was instituted. We were studying satire in English, and our assignment was to create an example. So I made an application for military service. It showed a picture of an attractive man without a shirt on and read, “I would like…

Brief Update

I feel that my meeting with the Leadership Commission went well on Friday.  I was able to be heard and to listen.  Each person from my congregation had a chance to speak as well.  The commission began its discernment on Friday and will continue discussing my situation at their next meeting in February. I am…

Why I’m Wearing my Pretty Panties

This might fall into the category of “too much information,” but I will be wearing my pretty panties tomorrow. They are bright pink with black polka dots, a couple of cute bows, some lace. Tomorrow morning I will leave home at 6:15 and travel with five other people from my church to our conference headquarters—about…